I don't know much about courting women my age. I hear that in Canada men outnumber women, and so it is extremely competitive and difficult for the men.
It is an unfortunate fact that in case of a disagreement, the authorities in North America will usually take the side of the woman. If the two of you live together for over two years, your "common law spouse" or wife can get you kicked out of your own home at any time. All she has to do is (wrongly) accuse you of abuse. If it boils down to her word against your word, the authorities will usually take her side.
In this country men can't have children. Should the mother disapprove of you, you will learn that you have no right to even be around your kids. This implies that you never had any right to them to begin with. Women have all of the power, when it comes to relationships. Only about 25% of men who ask for joint custody of the children, are able to get it.
For more details on these and other issues, check out
http://dontgetmarried.proboards75.com/i ... board=best forum (you will need to register). You may also want to investigate what men's rights groups have to say about these things.
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So what does it all mean?! My interpretation is: Don't Marry - Be Happy. And stay away from younger women. If she gets pregnant, she will get an incredible power to change your life for the worse.
I would never consider contacting a woman who is younger than 35. I also bring my "spy device" to all of my encounters - it is an mp3 recorder that looks like a pen. This way I know that nobody will ever (wrongfully) accuse me of rape/sexual assault.
> Тема получается мужсоветовская, однако. Так, девочки, попрошу отвернуться!
> П. С. Бытует мнение, что на сайтах типа AdultFriendFinder.com обитают в основном люди, предлагающие коммерческие секс-услуги, и будто бы действительно "эдалт френда" там найти сложно — насколько это так, по-Вашему?
Maybe this is true, if you are looking for a woman in her 20's. Most profiles of women 35 and older seem to be legitimate.
It is similar to fishing. If you check your net (i.e., check for new profiles that fit your criteria in your area) once a day, and you are patient, then in several years, you will have something to show for all of your effort. It is important to contact the woman within 24 hours of her joining the site. For some reason, contacting women who have been on the site for a while, is a waste of time.
I created a female profile, as a way to check out my competition. (Who knows, perhaps a significant number of female profiles on those sites were created this way.) I was not impressed!
I was hoping to learn a thing or two about how to write the initial email, but let's just say that that didn't happen.
В реальной жизни к ним никто не подходит или я этого не замечаю.
